Monrovia's calling you, Yoohoo?

Jun 04

me wants you bunny.

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TRUE lol

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sometimes i feel this way.

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paulamvd:

8219miles:

xx3xhiexx:

ijustloveyoursmile:

This little girl’s mother is from Helsinki, Finland. 

While her daughter is soundly asleep, she creates a completely different world … from whatever she can find around her!  That’s how both of them became really famous. What a truly fabulous imagination.

Cutest thing EVER! So adorable

Awww this is so cutee!!

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cutiepatootie disney princesses

tat-j-ana:

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May 08

thin!

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<3

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rapsa.

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true story.

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ayoko ng spark, nakakahumaling pero mapapanood mo pa paano mawala. gusto ko ganito. steady nakalight lang all the way, pag binunot mo mawawala na lang. 

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Mar 21

Mar 20

Characteristics of Functional and Dysfunctional Couples

• Dysfunctional: Being together and unhappy is safer than being alone.
• Functional: Being together brings us joy and happiness.

• Dysfunctional: It is safer to be with other people than it is to be alone and intimate with our partner.
• Functional: Being alone and intimate with our partner is as safe as being with other people.

• Dysfunctional: If I really let my partner know what I’ve done or what I’m feeling and thinking (who I am), (s)he will leave me.
• Functional: When I really let my partner know what I’ve done or what I’m thinking (who I am), it increases our intimacy. It’s met with acceptance.

• Dysfunctional: It is easier to hide (medicate) our feelings through addictive/compulsive behavior than it is to express them.
• Functional: We no longer need to hide and medicate our feelings through our addictive/compulsive behavior. We can express our feelings.

• Dysfunctional: Being enmeshed and totally dependent with each other is perceived as being in love.
• Functional: Being interdependent adds strength to the relationship.

• Dysfunctional: We find it difficult to ask for what we need, both individually and as a couple.
• Functional: We are learning to ask for what we need, both individually and a couple.

• Dysfunctional: Being sexual is equal to being intimate.
• Functional: Being sexual enhances our relationship (increases our intimacy).

• Dysfunctional: We either avoid our problems or feel we are individually responsible for solving the problems we have as a couple.
• Functional: We are learning to face our problems and not to feel individually responsible for solving the problems we have as a couple.

• Dysfunctional: We believe that we must agree on everything.
• Functional: We believe we don’t have to agree on everything.

• Dysfunctional: We believe that we must enjoy the same things and have the same interests.
• Functional: We believe we can have different interests and enjoy different things and enjoy being together.

• Dysfunctional: We believe that to be a good couple we must be socially acceptable.
• Functional: We don’t have to be socially acceptable.

• Dysfunctional: We have forgotten how to play together.
• Functional: We can play and have fun together.

• Dysfunctional: It is safer to get upset about little issues than to express our true feelings about larger ones.
• Functional: We are learning to express our true feelings about larger issues, and we are learning to resolve conflict.

• Dysfunctional: It is easier to blame our partners than it is to accept our own responsibility.
• Functional: We are learning to accept our individual responsibility.

• Dysfunctional: We deal with conflict by getting totally out of control or by not arguing at all.
• Functional: We are learning to deal with conflict and to fight fairly.

• Dysfunctional: We experience ourselves as inadequate parents.
• Functional: We accept our limitations as parents.

• Dysfunctional: We are ashamed of ourselves as a couple.
• Functional: We are proud of ourselves as a couple.

• Dysfunctional: We repeat patterns of dysfunction from our families-of-origin.
• Functional: We are recognizing and breaking the patterns of dysfunction from our families-of-origin.